Saturday, 25 August 2007

relationship

came across this on a mag.
thought they were food for thought.
so here goes.

Your lover does not owe you your happiness,
peace or joy.

happiness is a state of mind we choose to have.
all of your happiness,suffering, are created
by you and they do not come from outside
of you, or from others. before you get into
any kind of r/s, ask yourself these qns :
" Do i really really know how to walk away
from disappointment and fear? Will i be able
to find the person that i am now even after i go
into this r/s and begin a new way of life?"
In short, you should not be dependnt on your partner
on your emotional needs. You yourself are responsible
for your own feelings and creating positive experiences
for both your partner and you whenever you are together.

Love your partner for w ho they are.

No one's perfect in this world. One day you'll find your
partner doin certain things or saying certain things that
will hurt you, disappoint you or anger you. Before you go
into any type of r/s, ask yourself : " Will i be able to love
my partner for who they are. If i am unhappy or angry
with something they have done or said, will i able to
recognise my unhappiess or anger as against their speech,
actions and behaviour, and not against their persons? "

there you go.
think about it.
before you actually give up on a r/s.
or get into one.

Tell Her.